Personal Finance Archives - AFCPE https://www.afcpe.org/news-and-publications/blog/tag/personal-finance/ Association for Financial Counseling & Planning Education Tue, 23 Apr 2019 19:44:19 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.2 https://www.afcpe.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/05/afcpe-favicon.png Personal Finance Archives - AFCPE https://www.afcpe.org/news-and-publications/blog/tag/personal-finance/ 32 32 #FridayFollow: Waking Up for Financial and Social Change https://www.afcpe.org/news-and-publications/blog/fridayfollow-waking-up-for-financial-and-social-change/ https://www.afcpe.org/news-and-publications/blog/fridayfollow-waking-up-for-financial-and-social-change/#respond Fri, 18 Jan 2019 19:31:04 +0000 https://www.afcpe.org/?p=6650 Judy Polyne, AFC® is a financial coach and educator, coaching clients towards their financial goals. Through her work as an adjunct professor at New York University (NYU), as well as with local nonprofit organizations, Judy teaches people what they need to understand financial wellness and how to build a brighter financial future – both individually and collectively. She offers services to […]

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Judy Polyne, AFC® is a financial coach and educator, coaching clients towards their financial goals. Through her work as an adjunct professor at New York University (NYU), as well as with local nonprofit organizations, Judy teaches people what they need to understand financial wellness and how to build a brighter financial future – both individually and collectively. She offers services to all individuals, but her primary focus is providing financial counseling to women of color in higher education. Through her passion and her “Setting the Standard” attitude, Judy is making big strides toward financial and social change in her community. As this week’s #FridayFollow spotlight, Judy tells us what sparked her motivation and offers great advice that all AFCPE candidates and professionals can utilize.

 

AFCPE: What inspired you to do this work?

Judy: In 2002 I was researching the effects of welfare reform on women in large urban communities. I realized that one of the reasons these women struggled so much with this new change in their income was because of their lack of knowledge about how to manage their money and try to build assets.

AFCPE: You provide financial counseling and financial education in your community through several avenues. Can you provide details describing the services you provide?

Judy: I provide one-on-one financial counseling and coaching primarily to my niche market, women of color in higher education (full-time faculty, adjuncts, and graduate students). Additionally, I offer financial education classes and write curriculum for high school and college students. I have provided financial education in schools working with 3rd graders to high school students, in organizations, working with chronically unemployed, working poor, low and middle-income populations, and in individual and group settings.

AFCPE: You recently obtained your AFC®, congratulations! What does it mean to you to hold the AFC®designation as you work in these spaces?

Judy: Having the AFC® designation means that I have a level of expertise that is recognized as the standard, which I can confidently use to back-up the services that I provide in my work with clients and organizations.

AFCPE: What does it mean to provide financial counseling and financial education in your community of New York, NY?

Judy: New York is one of the most, if not the most, expensive places to live in the country. As the song goes, “If you can make it here, you can make it anywhere.” Helping people understand how to manage their money better so that they can make it here is what wakes me up every day.

AFCPE: What advice do you have for fellow AFC® candidates looking to earn hours in a similar capacity?

Judy: There is a larger need for your services than you may realize. Seek out organizations whose work moves you and offer your services there, by way of a class or brief one-on-one sessions. It’s a win-win. You will help support an organization you believe in, and they will help you move closer towards earning your certification.

AFCPE: Great advice Judy! What’s next for you? What has you most excited?

Judy: I’m really excited about focusing more energy on starting my business, Commencement Financial Services, now that I have the AFC® credential behind me.

 

Judy Answers the Friday 5:

  1. My Why: Because everyone, no matter how much they have/make deserves to be financially secure.
  2. My Favorite Quote: “You can’t go back and make a new start, but you can start right now and make a brand new ending.” James R. Sherman, Ph.D. 
  3. My Hero: I’m inspired by Saundra Davis of Sage Financial Solutions for her work as a leader in this field.
  4. My Favorite Personal Finance Resource: Kiplinger’s Personal Finance
  5. My best advice: 
  • For someone starting the journey to financial well-being: Your past does not dictate how far you can go in building a bright financial future. Start right now and build the future that you want and deserve.
  • For a new professional entering this field: Your clients need your essence, your education, and your expertise. Always bring your whole self to any interaction, and you will find that your clients will turn out better for it.

Follow Judy at:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/judy-polyne-afc%C2%AE-202921178/

January 18, 2019

Judy Polyne, AFC®, AFCPE® Member

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#FridayFollow – Taking Action Through Trial and Error https://www.afcpe.org/news-and-publications/blog/fridayfollow-taking-action-through-trial-and-error/ https://www.afcpe.org/news-and-publications/blog/fridayfollow-taking-action-through-trial-and-error/#respond Fri, 02 Nov 2018 17:01:51 +0000 https://www.afcpe.org/?p=6544 Johnie Reed is an AFC® based in Cleveland, Ohio. When asked about his profession, he shares with people that he’s a teacher by training, trade, and occupation. In his role as a financial counselor, he develops relationships based on trust and professional respect. Johnie helps clients change and improve upon their current credit and savings habits. A component of his practice […]

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Johnie Reed is an AFC® based in Cleveland, Ohio. When asked about his profession, he shares with people that he’s a teacher by training, trade, and occupation. In his role as a financial counselor, he develops relationships based on trust and professional respect. Johnie helps clients change and improve upon their current credit and savings habits. A component of his practice is helping clients overcome generational habits. Through a process that requires some trial and error, he helps clients discover the financial management process that gives them the most traction, a process that they can own and thatfits them the best.

AFCPE: What inspired you to do this work?

Johnie: As a mortgage professional (in a past life) it became clear to me that most of my clients, who were not qualifying for mortgages, were not necessarily neglectful or bad managers of their credit. They just wanted an easy process of cash management and “did not know what they did not know.” The idea of managing their credit use to achieve the most positive impact was not a concern until they needed credit (for mortgage approval, as an example). The idea of using savings and checking accounts as a tool to manage their spending and saving offered challenges. The “ease of use” check cashing operation close to their place of employment, or a “cash card” that they load their paycheck on and use as an all-purpose card, were easy options. My goal at the time was to increase their mortgage qualifications. I quickly realized that I had to educate my clients for long-term homeownership and saving for possible repairs to their home. That need to be helpful beyond the mortgage closing propelled me into the space that I currently occupy.   

AFCPE: You recently obtained your AFC®. Congratulations! What does it mean to you to hold the AFC®designation?

Johnie: The AFC certification is another tool in my tool belt that validates my experience and training. For clients, it tells them that I am a part of a larger organization of professionals that work with integrity and within a standard of ethical behaviors and practices. The certification states that I have the education and experience that lends itself to a level of understanding and knowledge that sets me apart from those say they do financial counseling.  

AFCPE: Very true! We are grateful to have professionals like you in the AFCPE community. What does it mean to provide financial counseling in your own community of Cleveland, Ohio?   

Johnie: In my community, I am proud to say that I have been involved in training others who have successfully completed the AFC exam. Their hard work and perseverance serves as a model for me to continue in my practice to help others. The financial managers that I have had the honor of training have successfully worked with thousands of clients in the greater Cleveland area. Many of these clients have become homeowners, have increased their credit scores, and have improved their savings practices. These men and women get to know their clients by building positive relationships that are predicated on credit and financial management but go well beyond just the numbers that build great credit and savings. These men and women positively change lives every day.

AFCPE: What’s next for you? What has you most excited?

Johnie: The next step for me, is writing a small, easy-to-read book, based on my personal financial management journey.  I want to share tools that could be useful to other counselors, as well as the layperson who just wants a clearer understanding of managing their credit and savings. The idea of helping people, especially across a greater distance, is exciting.

 

Johnie Answers the Friday 5:

  1. My Why: To guide people in moving from where they are to where they want to be.
  2. My Favorite Quote: You don’t know what you don’t know.
  3. My Hero: My godfather. Although he has passed away, his idea of helping others will always live in me.
  1. My Favorite Personal Finance Resource: My peers – those whom I have trained and those whom I have learned from during my journey.
  2. My best advice: 
    1. For someone starting the journey to financial wellness: Do not be afraid to share your story. You can help others feel a little easier about their journey.  
    2. For a new professional entering this field: I’d give the same advice. As a professional, we should be able to let our clients know that we have had some of the same struggles and have learned to make the behavioral adjustments to move positively forward.

Want to connect with Johnie? 
He can be reached at 330-817-6363.    

*PLEASE NOTE: Certification and Membership are two separate entities of AFCPE.

 

 Bonus! Johnie provided some short strategies based on the acronym A.C.T.I.O.N.©:

Activate – Do not let fear control your steps. Decide on a path and motivate yourself to make it happen.

Continuous – Always look for growth opportunities that make sense for the direction that you want to travel.

Talents – Engage with those that have the information that you do not; talk with those that have been where you want to go.

Include – Do not hold back information. Be transparent when working with your client or counselor.

Optimism – Someone else has overcome most of the challenges that we are faced with. You can do it!

Never – Never give up on the dream of financial security. It can be realized.   

November 02, 2018

Johnie Reed, AFC®

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#Friday Follow: Disrupting Historical Patterns https://www.afcpe.org/news-and-publications/blog/friday-follow-disrupting-historical-patterns/ https://www.afcpe.org/news-and-publications/blog/friday-follow-disrupting-historical-patterns/#respond Fri, 26 Oct 2018 16:55:30 +0000 https://www.afcpe.org/?p=6536 Scott Henderson is a Texas-based AFC® working full-time at a financial planning firm while pursuing his Master’s Degree and running a business and website called Simplifinances. Scott’s vision is to help young people and middle-class Americans simplify their finances so they can start living a life of financial independence. AFCPE: What inspired you to enter this field and do this work? Scott: When I […]

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Scott Henderson is a Texas-based AFC® working full-time at a financial planning firm while pursuing his Master’s Degree and running a business and website called Simplifinances. Scott’s vision is to help young people and middle-class Americans simplify their finances so they can start living a life of financial independence.

AFCPE: What inspired you to enter this field and do this work?

Scott: When I was eight years old my father walked out of my life. He left me and my four siblings. He also left a mountain of debt. After the divorce, my mom discovered a half a million dollars in unpaid debts with a lot of it being in her name. Of course, she couldn’t make the payments and was forced to file bankruptcy. We stayed in our house for 18 months before the bank knocked on our door and kicked us out. We were homeless living on food stamps and my mom did everything she could to get off of government support. I didn’t realize it at the time but we had nothing. We moved from place to place for years. My mom worked two jobs and tried to keep our expenses as low as possible.

My mom is one of my greatest examples and mentors to me. There were times she wanted to give up, but she never did. She could have blamed others for what happened but she took responsibility and was determined to get us out. She pulled us out of poverty, climbing the economic ladder and helped us become independent and self-reliant. She took it upon herself to learn about personal finance and teach her kids. I learned from a young age I was in charge of my financial future and committed to doing things differently throughout my life. I know what it’s like to have nothing and I want to help as many people as I can avoid money problems and live a life of meaning and independence.

AFCPE: What an inspiring story! It’s easy to see what drives your passion and commitment to this work. Speaking of your work, you also started a blog and business, Simplifinances. Tell us more about it and the impact you are hoping to make.

Scott: After becoming an Accredited Financial Counselor®, I had a few people reach out to me for help. I had always planned to start a business at some point but I officially started it in January, 2018. When I first started, I only planned to do financial coaching. But it has also grown into a blog as well as speaking. The impact that I’m hoping to have is to help as many people as I can get the most out of their personal finances.

AFCPE: What advice do you have for any other professionals looking to start their own business or blog?

Scott: It’s better to do something imperfectly than nothing flawlessly. Just start.

AFCPE: You were previously a Director at the PMMC (Personal Money Management Center) at the University of Utah. How important is it to have these resources and tools at colleges and universities?

Scott: It’s extremely important! I think that every college and university should have a resource where students can go for help with their personal finances.

AFCPE: We couldn’t agree with you more! What’s next for you? What has you most excited?

Scott: I plan to finish my Master’s degree next year (if I can pass my classes) and a lot of other exciting things are coming up in the near future. Perhaps a book, maybe a podcast? I guess we’ll wait and see.

 

Scott answers the Friday 5:

My Why: I want people to remember me at my funeral because of what I did not what I said I was going to do.

My Favorite Quote: “The pursuit of easy things makes men weak.”

My Hero: My mom

My Favorite Personal Finance Resource: Podcasts – I discovered podcasts last year and they have been my number one resource for personal finances.

My best advice:

  1. For someone starting their journey to financial wellness: No one is going to care for your money more than you. It’s important to take responsibility for your situation and educate yourself when it comes to personal finance.
  2. For a new professional entering this field: You have to believe in what you are doing and truly do what is best for the client. You wouldn’t think that doing the right thing for ALL your clients would be such a hard thing but apparently, with the way the financial services industry is set up, it’s easy for financial professional to forget about their clients and only focus on the bottom line. People need your help and you have to find a way to truly serve them. Not just sell them products or manage their assets, people need so much more than that.

 

You can follow Scott at:

Website: www.simplifinances.com

Facebook: www.facebook.com/simplifinances

Instagramwww.instagram.com/simplifinances

Twitter: www.twitter.com/simplifinances

Pinterest: www.pinterest.com/simplifinances

www.linkedin.com/in/scotthenderson3

October 26, 2018

Scott Henderson, AFC®, AFCPE® Member

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#FridayFollow – Finding Resource and Hope Through the Difficult Times https://www.afcpe.org/news-and-publications/blog/fridayfollow-finding-resource-and-hope-through-the-difficult-times/ https://www.afcpe.org/news-and-publications/blog/fridayfollow-finding-resource-and-hope-through-the-difficult-times/#respond Fri, 19 Oct 2018 16:51:26 +0000 https://www.afcpe.org/?p=6531 Laura Coleman is a Tennessee-based Accredited Financial Counselor® with a special niche – preparing couples financially for fertility and adoption. After experiencing firsthand the financial burden and stress that accompanies the fertility and adoption process, Laura felt called to start her blog, podcast, and financial coaching practice, Family Money Coaching. In this interview, she shares how she is providing much-needed support and […]

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Laura Coleman is a Tennessee-based Accredited Financial Counselor® with a special niche – preparing couples financially for fertility and adoption. After experiencing firsthand the financial burden and stress that accompanies the fertility and adoption process, Laura felt called to start her blog, podcast, and financial coaching practice, Family Money Coaching. In this interview, she shares how she is providing much-needed support and resources to families in her community.

AFCPE: What inspired you to do this work?

Laura: I’ve been AFC® certified since 2012. I kept hearing that I needed a niche. When I decided to start my own private practice, I looked at what I know best. After going through IVF 5 times and adopting 3 kids, I felt called to help other couples have their Forever Family. I didn’t want to hear, “well, we didn’t have kids because of the financial burden” nor did I want to hear regret over unrealized dreams because of money.

AFCPE: You have a podcast and blog called “Family Money Coaching”. Tell us about them.

Laura: I want to make a connection with couples wanting to adopt or go through fertility through my blog and podcast. I started my podcast in August and, so far, I’ve interviewed people that have adopted and/or started adoption grants. I love to hear how they’ve financially navigated the waters towards growing their family. I plan on interviewing fertility doctors, accountants to talk about the adoption tax credit, attorneys, adoption agencies, grant donors, and people who fundraise to share ideas that can help couples find the money needed to accomplish their goal of starting a family. I’ll be providing money tips on how to successfully raise money, money spending types/personalities, and how to improve your marriage. Marriages can struggle as you go through fertility and adoption, so we’ll discuss how to communicate about money, to alleviate one less stressor in your marriage.  

AFCPE: Incredible! You are bringing a unique, and often not discussed, topic to light. Based on your work as an AFC, how important is for parents to be financially prepared prior to going through the adoption or fertility process?

Laura: I spent $35,000 trying to get pregnant through IVF and we did it debt free. I’m very passionate about finding sources to accomplish your goal without going into debt. I’ve often heard clients come to me embarrassed to talk about their fertility struggles and their money struggles. I was so surprised to find out that 1 in 8 couples struggle with infertility. Couple that with the debt load of the average American and the idea of finding $25,000 for adoption or fertility is daunting. I want to provide HOPE for couples and let them know they can talk about money and fertility/adoption and not feel embarrassed, frustrated, or hopeless.

AFCPE: What’s next for you? What has you most excited?

Laura: I’m so excited for my podcast interviews and to create a dialogue around the financial aspect of adoption and fertility. I love talking about money and I love talking about Forever Families. I remember when I first started on our fertility journey and how alone I felt. I’m hoping that by talking about it, I can help someone else that feels alone and let them realize that there’s a community that wants them to succeed.

 

Laura answers the Friday 5

  1. My Why: I’m an Accredited Financial Counselor because I want to help families make better financial decisions and help them live life with intention.
  2. My Favorite Quote: “If being broke is normal, I’ll be weird.”
  3. My Heroes: Women who are passionate about life inspire me to be better.
  4. My Favorite Personal Finance Resource: I love reading books about the psychology of money.
  5. My Best Advice:

a. For someone starting the journey to financial well-being: Take one step at a time. Don’t be overwhelmed at all that you need to accomplish. Remember that a Goal is a Dream with a Deadline and a Dollar Sign. If you want that dream to become a reality, then you need to know when and how much you need to accomplish it. Then go forward with tenacity day by day. Do not get discouraged.

b. For a new professional entering this field: Best decision I ever made was to get my AFC®. So many doors have been opened to me because of it. It also provided me the professionalism that I needed. Find a mentor to help you decide on which direction you want to take as a financial counselor. Don’t get discouraged. There are so many people that need what we know.

Follow Laura at:

Facebook: @FamilyMoneyCoaching

Instagram: @FamilyMoneyCoaching

Website (where you can follow her blog and podcast): www.familymoneycoaching.org

October 19, 2018

Laura Coleman, AFC®

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#FridayFollow – The Power of the Work Within Us https://www.afcpe.org/news-and-publications/blog/fridayfollow-the-power-of-the-work-within-us/ https://www.afcpe.org/news-and-publications/blog/fridayfollow-the-power-of-the-work-within-us/#respond Fri, 31 Aug 2018 16:01:05 +0000 https://www.afcpe.org/?p=2764 Kyle Grevengoed works as a Military Personal Financial Counselor and a private practitioner. He was inspired to become an AFC® after beginning his career in the lending industry. As an AFC® he has a strong mission and vision to help his clients see the big picture – to “find the hero in themselves to make this world a better place.” AFCPE: What […]

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Kyle Grevengoed works as a Military Personal Financial Counselor and a private practitioner. He was inspired to become an AFC® after beginning his career in the lending industry. As an AFC® he has a strong mission and vision to help his clients see the big picture – to “find the hero in themselves to make this world a better place.”

AFCPE: What inspired you to do this work?

Kyle: I have been in the financial services field since 2007 when I got my start at a small finance company in Durham, NC. It was in the sub-prime lending industry. Fortunately, the business was not predatory in nature but we were definitely sub-prime, as a good credit score was 620. Contrary to popular opinion there were people who were legitimately helped by this industry. One example that comes to mind is the story of a man named Ed*(name has been changed).

I knew Ed for a few years and, at that time, he had just been through a separation that left his world shattered and his credit terrible. By terrible I mean he aspired to obtain a 400 credit score. He knew where I worked and came to me for advice on purchasing a vehicle. He did not need anything fancy, just a basic car to properly do his day job.

Fortunately, we found a repossessed Honda Civic that cost $3000, which I was able to get financed for him with $1500 down. He now had a dependable car to get him from point A to point B, he paid off the loan in six months, and eventually passed the car on to his son. An interesting side benefit to this story – the $3000 he spent completely paid off the previous owners’ debts so this purchase ultimately helped two people ever so slightly move their credit in the right direction. Up until that point, everything in Ed’s life seemed to be going wrong. The loan and car were the catalyst for change.

I loved being able to help Ed in a small, but significant, way and I wanted to help more people. Unfortunately, this kind of story and ability to help turn the tide is rare in sub-prime lending. Most of the time I was able to “help” a person keep a nostril above water. I wanted to do so much more than this and it was not going to happen in this lending niche, so I began my path toward becoming an Accredited Financial Counselor.

AFCPE: Such a good example of how a small step can be a huge catalyst for behavior change. You have own financial counseling business called 320 Life (previously known as Vision Centered Finance). Tell us about it.

My day job is as a personal financial counselor for the military, but I do have a LLC called 320 Life, LLC in which I provide financial counseling to anyone. I’m opting for slow and steady growth to ensure that my mission stays front and center.

The mission of 320 Life is find the hero in our clients to make this world a better place. There are multiple “causes” in a person’s life, things like education savings for their kids, retirement savings for themselves, and buying a home, to name a few. These important goals, or causes, to strive for are only the beginning. The ultimate cause, the grander vision for a person, is even deeper, and outside of themselves. It may be eradicating poverty or disease, fighting human trafficking, service to country, and many more. 320 Life wants to help people bridge the gap between life and finance so that everything is pointing our clients to both personal goals, and finally to that one grander vision for their life.

The name 320 Life comes from Ephesians 3:20: “Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us.”

AFCPE: We love the way you are keep your mission front and center and your focus on helping clients connect their financial goals to their life goals and purpose. As we enter the latter half of 2018, what’s next for you?

Kyle: There will always be a “what’s up next.” Right now, I’m focused on adding financial advising to the list of services, but adding it as an hourly service or even for free to those who currently have a low net worth.  Second, is a college valuation tool that will allow parents and prospective students to have a quick and easy valuation guide to college, similar to NADAGuides.com or KBB in the auto market. While low cost, high potential salary, and low debt after school may play a role in the overall value, the valuation is deeper than any one item.

AFCPE: Are you attending Symposium this year? What are you most looking forward to?

Kyle: Yes! There is not a particular speaker or session I am excited about. I look forward to the speakers I have never heard of, gaining new perspectives, sometimes on an old idea, that changes how I see something.

 

Kyle Answers the Friday Fast 5:

My Why: Honoring God in all I do by helping people be in position to accomplish more than they can ever ask or imagine.

My Favorite Quotes: “Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” – Victor Frank

“It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly;   who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.” – Theodore Roosevelt

My Heroes: Too many to name! However, if I had to pick, I would say my parents and grandparents.

My Favorite Personal Finance Resource: The Bible

My Best Advice: Life is about so much more than money. Money can help you achieve much and it can cause undue stress if not managed, but ultimately money is merely one tool that helps a person pursue a Vision Centered Life. Be sure your money points to your vision, not the other way around.

Follow Kyle at: https://www.320life.org/ 

August 31, 2018

Interview with Kyle Grevengoed, AFC® and AFCPE® Member

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#Friday Follow – Coaching from the Heart https://www.afcpe.org/news-and-publications/blog/friday-follow-coaching-from-the-heart/ https://www.afcpe.org/news-and-publications/blog/friday-follow-coaching-from-the-heart/#respond Fri, 27 Jul 2018 16:35:37 +0000 https://www.afcpe.org/?p=2800 Kristy Tubbs is a woman on a mission. She is and the president of Piece of Heart Financial Counseling & Life Coaching, where she teaches people how to heal the heart from the pain of financial woes. In this interview, she shares about her journey from military spouse to financial coach of money and the heart. AFCPE: What inspired you […]

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Kristy Tubbs is a woman on a mission. She is and the president of Piece of Heart Financial Counseling & Life Coaching, where she teaches people how to heal the heart from the pain of financial woes. In this interview, she shares about her journey from military spouse to financial coach of money and the heart.

AFCPE: What inspired you to enter this field? How did you find out about AFCPE?   

Kristy: I graduated from college and became a school teacher. During this time, I become passionate about the communication techniques I was able to teach couples as they came for parent/teacher conferences. This inspired me to go back to school to become a marriage counselor. It was during those years as a marriage counselor that I developed my communication techniques about money and marriage. Being a firm believer of “Stay in your lane”, I felt that I needed more education and training to provide excellence for my clients.  While doing a marriage workshop for a military organization, a member of the Family Services group told me about the FINRA Foundation Military Spouse Fellowship. I applied and was awarded the scholarship to earn my AFC®designation in 2009.  In 2010, I completed my coursework and was awarded my AFC designation.  As a military spouse, the focus of my business has always been to help military spouses find portable careers that allow them to support their family with freedom to move AND bring in an income. The AFC designation does just that!

AFCPE: You’ve since gone on to earn the FFC® certification as well. What impact have the AFC and FFC certifications made towards your work as a Marriage Counselor and Life Coach?   

Kristy: Having already worked in financial coaching and marriage counseling prior to earning the AFC & FFC certifications, I approached my further education a bit differently than most.  I came to the courses seeking mentoring to enhance my successful qualities and find focus and tools to change my weaker areas. The program provided exactly what I was seeking and gave me the confidence to expand my business. 

AFCPE: You started your own business, Piece of Heart Financial Counseling. Tell us a little more about your organization.

Kristy: Piece of Heart Financial Counseling & Life Coaching exists to help people heal their heart from the pain that money, or the lack of money, has caused. We started the company because as a military spouse, I found myself re-starting a new career with every move. As a marriage counselor, I created a business model that allows us to serve people in any state or country.

As I became successful, I wanted to share my knowledge with other military spouses, so, we created a mentor program to help military spouses jump start their own businesses.

AFCPE: What advice you give to someone who wants to start a private practice?   

When starting your business, know your destination. I knew I wanted to hold workshops around the world to teach financial and marriage communication and with the help of God and some amazing team members, I created the world I desired. 

Also, KNOW YOUR WORTH! So many people told me to start small and bid low because people needing financial wisdom would not pay. I never do anything small! I was already charging fees of $500 an hour for my services, so I saw no reason why adding a designation should not allow for that continued fee. If you can validate your fee, then charge it and do not look back! When people see the outcome of your influence in their lives, they will find a way to pay. 

To serve those who cannot afford to pay? Set up volunteer hours with local nonprofit organizations, allowing your clients to work with these organizations on behalf of your company name and in lieu of paying hourly fees to you!  That way you grow your impact and name in the community while changing the lives of all around! 

AFCPE: That’s a creative way to market and give back! Tell us, what’s next? What’s got you most excited?   

Kristy: I am very excited that we have several new contracts coming in and will hopefully be hiring even more people soon. I continue to bring financial wisdom to our military members and families through various government venues and the Yellow Ribbon program. Our television show will be coming out soon and my new book is due out in late September! We just completed booking the final 4 venues of the year for our “Build Your Dreams”, workshops. This one-day workshop teaches future business owners how to recognize their strengths, focus their vision, and develop their dream into the reality of a successful grand opening.

Kristy answers the Friday 5

1.     My Why:  I believe everyone needs someone who believes in them. When people are struggling and cannot see a way to the other side, hope is a POWERFUL gift to provide. Therefore, I live my life looking to provide hope in the midst of pain, to teach peace in the midst of turmoil, and I do it by believing in the potential of every person I meet.   

2.     My Favorite Quote: From the Bible, Luke 6:38, “Give and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.” It keeps me happy to give and to see the joy of a changed life!

3.     My Hero: Gloria Gonzalves, my mother is my hero! She was the driving force behind all of the businesses my family created. As a young woman I was taught to love big, give big, and chase after your dreams. Because of her unending support and mentoring, I had no doubt I would one day be a business owner in my own right and would continue her legacy of loving big, serving big and leaving a legacy for those who come behind me. I would not be here today if it were not for my mom–my friend, my business partner, and my mentor for life!

4.     My Favorite Personal Finance Resource:  www.powerpay.org I could not have built a better website! We use it in every presentation to teach people how to safely create pay off plans!

5.     My best advice:  

a.     For someone starting the journey to financial well-being:  Your life is about more than the sum of your past mistakes! So, START your financial journey today! Stand up. Take 1 step every day. Access your credit score. Repair your credit. Try and try again. Because, small daily successes will create large annual rewards! 

b.     For a new professional entering this field:  This will be one of the most rewarding and the most grieving careers of your life. Often times, it all happens in the same day! But, when you give of yourself to bring financial wisdom to others, something magical occurs. When you think you are changing someone’s life, you find out they are actually changing yours! If there is any way I can support you, please let me know at kristy@kristytubbs.com.

Follow Kristy at:

Email: kristy@kristytubbs.com

Facebook: @pieceofheartfinancial

Twitter: @moneyandheart

LinkedIn: @KristyTubbs

Website:  www.kristytubbs.com 

July 27, 2018

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Pamela Capalad, a Certified Financial Planner™ and Accredited Financial Counselor®, is a fee-only financial planner whose business is called Brunch & Budget. Why brunch, you might ask? Pam says that, “brunch gives us the space to have real, open, and vulnerable conversations. It’s about getting to the heart of why we’re sitting across the table in the first place – To help you find the path to live the life you want to live. Let’s get there together.”

She is also the cohost of a weekly podcast and personal finance & racial economic inclusion with Brian ‘Dyalekt’ Kushner.

But her organization, Pockets Change, that she co-founded with Andrea Ferrero, is really what started it all. Pockets Change provides Hip Hop + Finance workshops for youth (from age 5 to college age).
 

What inspired you to enter this field?

Pam: When I was in college, I took a summer job teaching financial literacy camps for kids and those three summers completely changed my life. Why didn’t I get this information when I was 12? Or now that I’m in college and managing money for the first time ever?? I finished with a literature degree and this overwhelming feeling that I needed to enter the financial field instead. I saw the impact we were able to make with kids in just a week and I knew I had to figure out how to get this information into the hands of more people so along with Andrea, who also taught camps for a summer, we founded Pockets Change.
 

Tell us about your hip hop and finance program for kids and teens and how you are not only bridging gaps, but really meeting people where they are.

Andrea: A big part of “meeting people where they are” is moving away from the traditional approach of teaching facts, figures and formulas. We’re focused on developing habits, strategies and mindset for navigating financial decision making. That’s where the combination of Hip Hop and Finance comes in. We work together to explore finding your Pocket – your personal rhythm and connection to community. Finding that rhythm isn’t about learning a compound interest rap rather it’s about creating a cypher, a space where learners of all ages can identify, examine and share their personal strengths and relationship with money. By making finance more personal, kids and teens look at budgeting from a place of personal prioritization, earning as an extension of personal interests and goals, and financial systems as relationships where they can advocate for themselves.
 

We love your creativity and innovation – from your business model to your programming? What’s next up? What’s got you most excited?

Andrea: From here we’re going to keep changing the way finance is taught! We’ve enjoyed traveling to incredible community partners across the country sharing student workshop series, professional development workshops, and our online curriculum. We’re excited to expand that community of partners, working with K-12 schools, colleges, universities, government agencies and nonprofits to talk about money and how we can build financial capability in our communities. As part of that community building we’ve been selected as Mozilla Open Leaders, leading a project on the development of financial self-assessment tools. 


Pamela Answers our Friday 5  

  1. My Why: To do my part to help close the racial wealth divide and educate people not only in personal finance, but on how to see their finances in the context of the bigger picture and system
  2. My Favorite Quote: “Money is always there, just the Pockets Change. It’s not in the same pockets after a change.” – Gertrude Stein 
  1. My Hero (who inspires you): Saundra Davis founder of Sage Financial Solutions, and Lillian Singh director of the Racial Wealth Divide Initiative at Prosperity Now – I want to be them when I grow up!
  1. My Favorite Personal Finance Resource: Carl Richards is one of my fave NYT columnists
  1. My best advice: 
    1. For someone starting the journey to financial well-ness: Where you spend your money is a representation of what you value – indulge in the things you value, ignore the rest.
    2. For a new professional entering this field: Get certified in something! It’s not about letters after your name, it’s about doing right by the clients who are counting on you to help them with their livelihoods. Take that seriously enough to be held accountable for your advice. If there’s one designation you’re going to start with, start with the AFC®. I’m not just saying that, I got my CFP first and if you want to work with folks who need this information and help the most, the AFC® covers the knowledge base and the behavioral/psychological training you’ll need to help people truly make change.


Follow the work of the Brunch & Budget team at:
Website: brunchanbudget.compocketschange.com 
Twitter: @brunchandbudget @pocketschange
Instagram: @brunchandbudget @pocketschange
FaceBook: /brunchandbudget /pocketschange 

May 18, 2018

Interview with Pamela Capalad, CFP®, AFC® and her co-founder of Pockets Change, Andrea Ferrero

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Does That Pet Fit Your Budget? https://www.afcpe.org/news-and-publications/blog/does-that-pet-fit-your-budget/ https://www.afcpe.org/news-and-publications/blog/does-that-pet-fit-your-budget/#respond Fri, 01 Dec 2017 18:52:23 +0000 https://www.afcpe.org/?p=3248 Most people, at some point in their life, decide to get a pet. They see the puppy in the window or the horse in the show ring and fall in love. Before making such a purchase it is important to ensure that the budget has room to spare. Owning an animal is not only an emotional commitment, it is also […]

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Most people, at some point in their life, decide to get a pet. They see the puppy in the window or the horse in the show ring and fall in love. Before making such a purchase it is important to ensure that the budget has room to spare. Owning an animal is not only an emotional commitment, it is also a financial commitment. Once an animal is purchased, it cannot be thrown away like a piece of paper.

When considering a pet, it is important to consider upcoming events that may affect the budget – life events such as marriage, child, move, divorce, or job change. These situations can change the entire financial picture. While buying a betta fish may have minimal long-term financial consequences, buying a horse can cost you thousands of dollars annually for thirty years. Consider how the following expenses fit into each of those scenarios.

Initial Purchase

Although the initial price for a betta fish is a few dollars, the initial price for a horse is significant and can drastically vary. The price of a horse is determined by age, breed, bloodlines, color, conformation, and level of training.

Housing

While the betta fish’s living arrangement may cost $10, building a barn for a horse can cost as much as a human house. If the horse needs to be boarded elsewhere, this fee typically ranges from $200 to $500 per month. The type of shelter, amount of pasture, and other amenities can drive this price even higher.

Food

The betta fish can feed off the same small container of food for several months. A horse on the other hand requires a substantial amount of hay. Hay can be produced for as little as a dollar per small bale, but costs between $5 and $12 per small bale. This calculates out to $30 to $360 per month, if the horse is solely relying on hay. During summer months, grass can be substituted for hay. Expect to have at least 1 acre of quality grass to maintain a thousand pound horse. Depending on age and body build, feed may be added to the diet. A bag of feed costs $10 to $30 and typically lasts two to four weeks. A horse may also require certain supplements. Common supplements are used to improve joint and hoof health.

Medical Expenses

A betta fish does not require annual vaccinations. A horse requires different vaccinations depending on location. Horses are also more prone to getting injured or sick which can add to the yearly vet bill. If a male horse is purchased that has not been gelded, this is an expense to consider.

Equipment

Betta fish require minimal equipment. Horses require feeding equipment, grooming equipment, working equipment such as saddles and bridles, specialty equipment such as blankets, and travel equipment such as a truck and trailer.

Training

A betta fish does not need to be trained to be a pet. Depending on the horse’s current level of training, it may require additional training. Will a trainer need to be hired or is the owner knowledgeable enough to complete the training? This training fee may cost thousands of dollars.

Owning and caring for a pet can be a tremendously rewarding experience, but understanding the financial investment before becoming emotionally invested can limit unforeseen financial stress.

What budget considerations do you discuss with clients who are considering a pet?

Guest Contributor: April Meza, AFC®

December 01, 2017

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When Finances Become the Battlefield https://www.afcpe.org/news-and-publications/blog/when-finances-become-the-battlefield/ https://www.afcpe.org/news-and-publications/blog/when-finances-become-the-battlefield/#respond Mon, 23 Oct 2017 13:41:20 +0000 https://www.afcpe.org/?p=3309 Whether you joined the military or you married into the military, this life choice came with several battlefields. While you probably prepared yourself for wartime battlefields, you may not have considered some of the battlefields within your own home. Every day you are faced with countless decisions affecting your finances. As an individual, you must be aware of your own […]

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Whether you joined the military or you married into the military, this life choice came with several battlefields. While you probably prepared yourself for wartime battlefields, you may not have considered some of the battlefields within your own home.

Every day you are faced with countless decisions affecting your finances. As an individual, you must be aware of your own financial decisions, but as a married couple, you must also be mindful of the financial decisions your spouse makes as well. In a marriage, a spouse can be the greatest asset or the greatest barrier to financial freedom.

We all grow up with different values and experiences. These differences determine the level of importance we place on debt, savings, investments, and other financial topics. Aligning these values, or trying to convince someone to change long-held beliefs can be very difficult. It often becomes more frustrating when the person you are trying to convince is a spouse or a loved one. It is commonly said that opposites attract. As a financial counselor, I often work with couples where one person is a saver, and the other is a spender. These different mindsets can cause feelings of resentment, betrayal, stress, guilt, and frustration. It is essential to have strong communications skills to address and eliminate these feelings. As a counselor, my goal is to assist couples in fighting the problem together instead of battling each other.

Tips for effectively communicating about finances:

  1. Focus on the problem. Do not change the topic just because the discussion is not going your way.
  2. Do not assume you know your spouse’s thoughts or intentions. Ask for clarification and do not make accusations.
  3. Own your actions. If you made a poor choice, then admit it, learn from it, make a plan to improve, and then follow through. If you fail again, then analyze why you failed and adjust your plan as needed.
  4. Look at the big picture to find common ground. What are your long-term goals? How will your daily choices affect the success of these goals? What is the timeline you want to buy a house, be debt free, go on a vacation? When you start looking towards the future, it becomes easier to put a step by step plan together.
  5. As a suggestion, not a rule, allow each other to have fun money. We all want a little part of life that we can control without question. As long as it is legal and moral, do not criticize your spouse’s fun money purchases. One spouse may like to buy a coffee every day. However, the other spouse may prefer to save to buy a kayak, purse, gun, 4-wheeler, or jewelry.  
  6. Keep your finances transparent. Whether you have a joint account or separate accounts, it is vital that you both know your entire financial situation. When are the bills due? How much debt do you have? How much money do you make? What is your credit score?
  7. Solve financial problems as a team. In marriage there is no longer an “I” but instead a “we.” If your partner is drowning in debt, then you are both drowning in debt. I understand that some spouses do not want assistance from the other spouse; however, working as a team will benefit both of you. The interest paid on credit card debt is generally more than the interest made on investments. Increasing credit scores leads to lower interest rates.
  8. Work with a personal financial counselor. A financial counselor can act as a mediator to keep the discussion focused and calm. 

Guest Contributor: April Meza, AFC®

October 23, 2017

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Starting A Client Conversation: It Doesn’t Begin with Finance https://www.afcpe.org/news-and-publications/blog/starting-a-client-conversation-it-doesnt-begin-with-finance/ https://www.afcpe.org/news-and-publications/blog/starting-a-client-conversation-it-doesnt-begin-with-finance/#respond Tue, 17 Oct 2017 14:56:34 +0000 https://www.afcpe.org/?p=4959 Personal financial can be a touchy issue for many individuals. Consider this scenario: A client makes an appointment for a financial-planning consultation. As an Accredited Financial Counselor (AFC®), you ensure the client that you do not endorse, sell or promote any financial product line. Yet, even with this disclaimer, your client still appears edgy and somewhat uncomfortable. Why? What’s going […]

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Personal financial can be a touchy issue for many individuals.

Consider this scenario: A client makes an appointment for a financial-planning consultation. As an Accredited Financial Counselor (AFC®), you ensure the client that you do not endorse, sell or promote any financial product line. Yet, even with this disclaimer, your client still appears edgy and somewhat uncomfortable. Why? What’s going on? You also advised your client that they would be wise to add an emergency fund to their overall financial plan portfolio. What’s the harm in that? You said, “emergency fund” but what your client likely heard was “no more restaurant dinners out.”                             

The takeaway for the professional is to see and hear the Whole Person. Upon meeting your client, begin to understand their perspectives of working with a financial professional. Have their prior experiences been pleasant? Take into account that, you as an advisor, may also be representative of the greater financial industry. Generally, medical and legal professionals, administrators and public officials, and other financial consultants have planted the seeds of success (or failure) with regard to the client’s first impression of you. When meeting with a client for the firsts time, I picture myself as a pediatric dentist meeting with a pre-school patient for his very first dentist appointment. Am I going to begin the appointment with the benefits of a therapeutic root-scaling? No…I’m going to ask the child about her favorite book or toy.

Upon approaching or being approached by a candidate for advisory services, be professional and cordial. Yet subconsciously, tap into the hidden or possible barriers to client trust. Even for clients who are business-like and broadcast their disdain for “small talk”, I ensure you that the interaction will have a greater chance for success if you do not start the conversation with Finance.

Essential elements of relationship-building and dismantling communication barriers include:

  • Bringing attention to areas of commonality (sports, similar tastes in music, etc.)
  • Non-judgmental probing (what is your opinion of Tech Stocks?)
  • Humor (the good, clean, and relevant kind)
  • Unconditional acceptance (Yes, I know, the cost of living has skyrocketed)
  • Being aware of posture (Are my arms folded…am I looking at the clock?)

Uneasiness is especially prevalent in individuals who come to us due to a financial loss or need of immediate advisement. Some clients may even equate asking for help or advice as a sign of failure. By putting ourselves “in their shoes,” we open our perspective and create a gateway to a successful client financial counseling interaction.

As AFC® professionals, we understand and practice the relationship-building process:

  1. Engage and understand the client’s issue.
  2. Establish trust.
  3. Provide appropriate and alternative client-centered solutions.

Remember these three guidelines and start your initial conversation by NOT talking about finance. I think you’ll discover, as have I, that this approach is a highly effective strategy for client engagement, effective resolution and efficacy.

Guest Contributor: Andre Milteer, AFC®

October 17, 2016

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Balancing Family & Finances: How to Let Your Budget Breathe Under Pressure https://www.afcpe.org/news-and-publications/blog/balancing-family-finances-how-to-let-your-budget-breathe-under-pressure/ https://www.afcpe.org/news-and-publications/blog/balancing-family-finances-how-to-let-your-budget-breathe-under-pressure/#respond Thu, 03 Aug 2017 14:46:25 +0000 https://www.afcpe.org/?p=4304 “When I was your age…” We’ve all heard the stories about walking to school uphill both ways in the snow. Or how gas used to cost $0.50 and a Coke cost $0.25. Cue the eye roll and move the conversation forward. However, there’s another type of comparison story that isn’t always as easy to brush off. With many families are […]

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“When I was your age…”         

We’ve all heard the stories about walking to school uphill both ways in the snow. Or how gas used to cost $0.50 and a Coke cost $0.25. Cue the eye roll and move the conversation forward.

However, there’s another type of comparison story that isn’t always as easy to brush off. With many families are facing tight budgets, looming debt, job loss, underemployment, medical costs, or just a string of financial bad luck, pressures, and expectations from extended family and friends can quickly move from an eye roll to hurt or even guilt. Too often, family members will tell hardship stories from when they were your age and how they “pulled themselves up by their bootstraps” while still being able to fulfill all of their obligations. Now cue the financial guilt trip.

Today, inarguably, is very different from the days of the past. Yet, society protocol tells us that at a certain age we should have achieved a certain goal and be at a certain financial point: college degree; married; pets; house; children; vacations; and retirement – all while having the latest gadget and keeping up with the latest trends.

Families expect loved ones to travel for every holiday, birthday, and celebration; remember obscure celebrations; participate in gift exchanges; and, through it, all, keep everything even between the various branches of the family. If you spend the holidays with your in-laws instead of your Mom? Guilt. If your brother, who is in dire financial straits, attends an anniversary celebration and you do not? Guilt. Not to mention, there is now the perception that your brother must know some budgeting trick that you do not.

Odds are, he doesn’t know a trick. Like many of us, he is compromising his financial situation to avoid conflict with the family. It is the easiest thing to do. No one wants to be the topic of discussion during family gatherings or be the only one to miss out on a big event.

Here are 6 ways to avoid being a family hot-topic and avoid getting yourself into a financial bind:

1. Create a Spending Plan: Whether you use a pen and paper or an app, having a spending plan in place will ensure that you are maximizing your financial potential. If you have debt obligations, you need to ensure that those obligations are being met. If there’s a reoccurring medical need, you’ll want to make sure to take care of it.

2. Prioritize: With your spending plan in place, now you can prioritize what you would like to achieve financially. Your spending plan is unique to you and your goals, whether it’s paying down debt, saving to travel, or taking up a hobby. Prioritizing your spending plan will allow you to meet your fixed monthly obligations and bills while saving for your goals.

3. Communicate: This can be very difficult as money is never an easy topic, but open communication is key to helping family understand your unique situation. If your budget is constrained, or you have more bills than you can handle, speak up. Making excuses about why you cannot attend a family function, or attending when you cannot afford the expense, will only further hurt yourself, and potentially others, in the long run. Your family ultimately wants what is best for you. It is your job to help them understand what is best for you.

4. Manage Expectations: Birthdays, holidays, and many other celebrations occur at the same time each year. If you know in advance that you won’t be able to attend an event, or that you cannot participate in gift giving, say so now. By providing advance notice, the party host can make proper arrangements for your absence or adjust plans to help you find a way to attend or participate.

5. Compromise: If you find it’s not feasible to travel to three different states or visit all of the extended family over all of the holidays, then compromise. Maybe your family plans one vacation where everyone meets at a central location. Or if you’re willing to host, invite your family to come to you. When there’s gift giving involved, and you simply do not have the extra funds for a material gift, offer a gift of service or time. Experiences are more memorable than things.

6. Be Guilt Free: There will be disappointment from the receiver of bad news. That’s to be expected. Recognize their disappointment and give yourself permission to forgive yourself. You know what is best for you and your situation. It is very intimidating to say no to the most important family celebration of the year, however; you are the best judge of your financial obligations. By incorporating the above steps, you may learn that those who are currently your biggest hinderers will turn out to be your biggest supporters.

Have you been faced with having to choose between your financial health and a family activity? What did you find most helpful in handling the situation?

Guest Contributor: Kara Schulte, AFC®

August 03, 2017

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Cash or No Cash? https://www.afcpe.org/news-and-publications/blog/cash-or-no-cash/ https://www.afcpe.org/news-and-publications/blog/cash-or-no-cash/#respond Wed, 09 Nov 2016 15:44:58 +0000 https://www.afcpe.org/?p=4952 Being stationed overseas provides exposure to a different financial attitude. We are stationed in Germany where, even today, one of the corps’ values is “to save.” An old German saying “Nur Bares ist Wahres” — only cash is true — underlines another German virtue – paying with cash. Even though the use of debit and credit cards, as well as […]

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Being stationed overseas provides exposure to a different financial attitude. We are stationed in Germany where, even today, one of the corps’ values is “to save.” An old German saying “Nur Bares ist Wahres” — only cash is true — underlines another German virtue – paying with cash. Even though the use of debit and credit cards, as well as smart phones, is becoming more popular, according to an article from the newspaper “Die Welt – Beim Bezahlen sind die Deutschen Fundamentalisten” published March 19, 2015, in 2014 over 50% of German transactions were done in cash.

Over the last few years, bank CEOs and other prestigious business men have predicted that cash will sooner or later be a payment instrument of the past. So, is a world without cash a horror scenario or the future?

The Pros of a Cashless Society:

  • Less Economic Burden: For the economy coin money and banknotes are very expensive, not only to print but to keep available (i.e. at ATMS, cash registers, etc). Cash travels several thousand kilometers/miles per year in cash transports.
  • More Sanitary: For some, cash is unsanitary, especially paper bills. Therefore, paying with cards or through other electronic means is a cleaner alternative.
  • Less Physical Crime: A cashless society could potentially lead to a reduction in criminal activity, since no coin money or bills would be available for robberies at the register of a gas station or with the cab driver. Alternatively, online crime would probably increase. However, money is often easier to retrieve with no cash transactions (i.e. credit card payment disputes). In a cashless society money laundering would be a business of the past.
  • More Convenient Travel: With no foreign bills and coins to exchange, traveling and spending in foreign countries would be more convenient. No longer would you return home with surplus coins or bills that you did not exchange because the amount was too small to justify an exchange fee.

The Cons of a Cashless Society:

  • Loss of Independence & Anonymity: Paying with cash allows you to remain anonymous. You do not leave a data trail as you would with other forms of payment (i.e. a credit card). That said, this information is often collected and used by companies to target you as a potential client, and not always in a positive way.
  • What about the unbanked? Anyone can use cash. You do not need to sign a contractual obligation. It is not tied to your financial health or credit score if you have it in your pocket you may spend it.
  • Higher Potential to Overspend. An advantage of cash is that only what is in your wallet can be spent. Cash allows you an on the spot tracking opportunity and control over your money situation.
  • Technical Inconveniences: How often have you seen the signs at stores or gas stations that credit or credit cards transactions cannot be processed at this time? If you have cash, no problem. At the millennium, everyone was worried about black outs, computer crashes, data dumps. With cash, technical inconvenience is not an issue.
  • Fees: Credit cards cost organizations additional fees, and these fees are particularly relevant for small business owners.

Nobody knows what the future will bring, electronic devices, availability and the search for convenience are on the rise. For consumer’s cash has two big advantages: independence and freedom.

As with all things, there are two sides to a coin. We will have to wait and see which side it will land on and what the future of cash will bring.

Guest Contributor: Doris Koepp, AFC®

November 09, 2016

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